Here’s How To Get Out From Your Addictions

But first, you must know why you feel like you can’t get out from your worries and problems “Because you love it.” If you don’t love it, you would have stayed away from it. The problem is that, you want it badly, that without it, you feel lost.

That is why, the saying “It’s only when you get lost that you’ll find yourself again.” And it’s true. I know it sounds unbelievable.

It happened to me. I got addicted with analyzing and thinking about world problems, family problems, personal problems.

It got me thinking about how to solve them. How to solve others bad behaviors, others chaos, others negative thoughts, anger, frustration and stresses.

I got addicted with solving one of my family members problem which is “she’s trying to take control over others, she wants us to follow her, but she couldn’t.”

Because of my curiosity, because I couldn’t understand why she’s like what she is. Why she couldn’t listen to me, my ego was touched.

I have become like her, trying to force her to become like me. I begin fighting back against her life principles, and I always end up, being a loser.

I felt very low, and powerless. So, I decided to give up. But even after that, my addiction of helping her and telling her what should still haunts me down. I still feel like fighting back.

But, the truth gradually sets me free. The truth that we cannot, never ever forced someone to become which he/she is destined to. No matter how much you care, your WILL will not work for them.

And that experience helps me realized not to take things very seriously, specially when it comes to the people you love.

Don’t care too much for others. Take care of yourself. They’ll take care of themselves. Pray for them. Pray that they’ll find their way on the other side of the road.

You gotta have to trust God and learn to have faith in the Lord that he’ll keep watch for them. And that they’ll be fine.

We can get what we want, everything we asked for, except one thing – you cannot make someone loves you by force, but you can salute their goodness within them to be your friend; not unless they chooses to.

And you know why? It’s because God is with them, and you’re no bigger than God. But it doesn’t mean that you’re not loved by God. Look at the big picture, and you’ll see how great Gods love is for you and for everyone.

Remember that you can get all that you want, except one thing. So, you may as well, focus on those things that you can get. It’s just that, there is always someone bigger and greater than you, no matter what.

And, most importantly, no perfect person for you, but yourself and God. That’s the truth that everyone must know. You might as well, be that person you love.

So, getting out from our problems is not easy at first, but it is worth pursuing and trying for, rather than staying and doing nothing, suffering, crying, etc. etc.

You may have to stop loving that thing, but that’s not the end of the world; you will find another love. You will learn to love again. Don’t worry. And seek for guidance.

Remember again, that you are the captain of your soul. You are the master of your fate.

If quitting makes you feel unloved, if stopping worrying makes you feel unloved, then remember that it’s just a feeling, not the truth. Be patient. Jesus loves you. God loves you. God is listening to your request.

The father is always right in your brain, giving you thoughtful ideas. Helps you think and plan like him.

God is helping you to become what you want to become, you may not be even aware of it.

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Why Is Action Better Than Words?

Action is always better than words and dreams. Law of attraction won’t work without law of action.

If we act now based on our goals, we could have accomplished many goals already.

The worse type of laziness is thinking without doing. So many people who have great ideas but are not reaching it.

It is because of lack of motivation and inspiration. People needs inspiration to keep going. As Miley Cyrus song lyrics says “everybody needs inspiration…”

Take action, solidify your purpose, have faith in the original substance that makes everything possible.

Words, dreams, goals without a plan is merely a wish. But if we act on it by planning first, and then taking action, seeing how it goes, getting feedback, then deciding whether or not to keep going or whether you proceed to plan B.

Planning is the first step in Principles of Management, v. 1.1 by Mason Carpenter, Talya Bauer, and Berrin Erdogan; followed by organizing, leading and controlling.

But our common sickness is that, when we plan it won’t usually happen; say we’ll travel this date at this particular time; when that set date is nearly approaching, everyone starts cancelling, and finding excuses not to go.

It is because of lack of purpose, clarity and faith. If we are clear and excited about really going on that trip, and everyday you keep reminding yourself of that coming day; when that day finally came, we’re even more ready.

Another thing is lack of readiness. It will take time to be ready. It takes practice and repetitive studying before we even get ready during exams, right?

So, what are we waiting for, let’s make a plan and keep moving. But before anything else, we must first have a purpose. A strongest purpose that everyone desires, to help others, to grow in mind, body and spirit.

And in order to be able to do that, we need what? Money — We need to be rich — We need to have enough money to support ourselves, to buy the things that will help us enhance our skills, our mind, our body, and of course to be able to give love to our love ones.

Our society today is controlled by money, isn’t it? So, instead of looking at money as an enemy, let’s makes use of money to improve our relationships with others. Let’s look at it positively. It’s just a piece of paper. We give power over it.

So don’t be afraid to get rich and be lost, remember your purpose; to help yourself and others. And besides, it’s only when one get lost when you shall find yourself. It’s going to be all right. But of course, be mindful.

As long as you’re mindful, you’ll make better decisions in the future. So stop worrying about getting lost if you get rich. You’re not even rich yet, how would you even be sure that you’ll really get lost? Trust yourself and have faith.

Always remember your purpose, for you and for others. It’s just how the world works right now, and in the future.

Give others things that would improve their lives even better, not because they’re poor. They/We just need inspiration.

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Use Your Will Only For Yourself Not For Others

As it is against the law of creation to use your will for others. And that it is beyond your jurisdiction to make people become as you want them to become, against their own will.

And if you will still do things that will make them become as you want them to become, you are trespassing. You are deceiving.

We can force things; yes, we can; against the law. But please remember that what comes around goes around. What you sow is what you shall reap.

Keep in mind this “Do not do unto others what you don’t want others to do unto you.”

But, what if someone forced you to use your will in behalf of them? Someone from your very own family? Very dangerous right?

Someone did to me, the name shall remain anonymous. She wants me to become her, to took over her responsibilities for her to be set free.

But I know deep inside that it isn’t right. For my will is not to be used for others nor anyone from our family.

We have a unique will power that is given to us by the source of everything, to assist us in our day to day lives, our future and most of all our dreams and connection to the supreme.

She’s a woman who uses her will for others, risking her life and her future for others; and she forced me to become like her.

My anger reaches the ends of the heavens, and the only way to save myself is to leave.

Thanks be to God for guiding me, and to Jesus for always being with me. I got traumatized and would rather not go back to that place ever again.

If you ever met these types of people, simply stay away. They’ll risk your relationship to yourself and to God.

Remember, when Jesus was tempted by the devil Matthew 4:1-11.

Jesus Is Tested in the Wilderness

Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted[a]by the devil. After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry.The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”

Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’[b]

Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:

“‘He will command his angels concerning you,
    and they will lift you up in their hands,
    so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’[c]

Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’[d]

Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”

10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’[e]

11 Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.

COMMENTARY:

Do not be deceived by people trying to deceive you to risk your life by questioning your belief and by tapping unto your very own weaknesses.

Most weaknesses we humans have are shame, guilt, what other people would say to you if you wouldn’t do this and that.

No matter what, choose God in you. Use your will for God’s sake in you. Do not be tempted by those people acting like they are poor and somebody hurt them, and they need your help to take revenge, even if it’s your own close family asking you to do that.

Even your own Mother or Father. For we didn’t know what is the real story is about. We only hear stories that maybe altered, edited, for them to get what they want from you. Always beware and be wise. Don’t be fooled.

Every now and then, our faith is being tested; we aren’t even aware of it; it just feel unnatural. It’s sort of like a soul training. So don’t be angry, stay calm, all is well.

Remember to say this words when you’re in trouble: Matthew 6:9-13 

Pray then like this:

“Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name.[a]
10 Your kingdom come,
your will be done,[b]
    on earth as it is in heaven.
11 Give us this day our daily bread (food for our soul),[c]
12 and forgive us our debts,
    as we also have forgiven our debtors.
13 And lead us not into temptation,
    but deliver us from evil.[d]

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