What Are The Top 3 Sources Of Hardship In Life?

First and foremost, hardship is just a feeling of first time things. First time is always hard, but after you master it, things are very easy to handle.

Giving is the best expression of love. And in today’s world, the ability to give love through things, and money to give people freedom is most in demand.

For the poor people, money gives freedom and happiness; but for the rich, baby’s does. Well, for me, it’s always good to be always your mother and fathers daughter and son.

For the people who doesn’t want to stay as a child, and would decide to control others, the heavenly father will also deny that bastard son.

But, for the child that always remember his earthly father who fed them when they were just little, the heavenly father will pour his blessings over to him or her.

So, no matter how bad your parents are, remember the goodness in the heavenly father that gives you life.

And, do not let their ignorance take control of your lives. Bad parents wants to control you and will never stop trying to control you; only because they think they owned you, but no; God owns you. God gave you life; they are only a passages for you to be formed.

Whatever they gave you, they are not entitled to dictate you to pay for it; God, the heavenly father gave it to them; your father in heaven gave it to them, everything you received, you owned it, you deserved it.

The love of Jesus Christ may shine on you… Be always thankful of the Lord Jesus and my uncle Paul who loves me in all his ways.

So, 3 sources of hardships in life, process of giving birth, first time sexual intercourse, first time job.


Kindness & Friendship Is Our Only Hope

While love burns you to anger, frustration, stress, depression, anxiety; kindness and friendship heals, gives peace and harmony.

In the world full of tension, peace  is needed and in demand. It’s the only cure that I know for sure.e

Friendship and kindness to one another as brothers and sisters with the Universe, creates joy, happiness and hope.

What Is The Source Of Anger?

Jealousy. You, me, them, everyone are jealous. We are all jealous people. We all need to love again in order to mend our anger and frustrations due to jealousy.

We need to love one another equally to avoid jealousy. Or due self-love anyway if you’re alone to mend your jealousy over others.

Some people are angry of love, frustrated of love, because it is indeed the beginning of jealousy. But if you give chance of love again, it will mend your anger and your jealousy.

And therefore, love is the beginning and the end. God is love. Jesus is called the Alpha and the Omega. Stay hopeful, you will love again. Choose to love your love no matter what.

Do not wait for love to come again, love now. Waiting for love is making yourself angry very hard, jealous even more.

Jesus said love one another; but people are taught to wait for his return. Their teaching to wait for love, instead of loving now. Isn’t that the opposite of what Jesus was teaching?

Another source of Anger is lie and betrayal. It is the source of loneliness and too much anger and restlessness.

People needs love and affection. Cursive people due to anger and jealousy needs love, self-love, and also understanding.

People gets crazy because of heart-ache, because of hatred, lack of understanding, failure to forgive, and give chance for self-love to heal their illusion of separation and betrayals.

If we only understand that the other doesn’t love the other more than you; that the one who loves only loves themselves, because that’s the truth; and so your love never departs from you. Because it is in you and me.

It is pointed to different things outside us, but we are the source of love. So, we can point it again to others someday. Love again and do not be scared to be hurt, hurt is only in your mind. Anger is only in your mind.

Mend your broken-heart, accept love again because that is yourself. You cannot be whole without accepting love.

Others love death, they are cursive of their love; and so, Jesus died for them to save the innocent people. Whenever you feel like cursing someone, think of love, think of yourself, think of Jesus death.

Tell yourself, no more deaths, Jesus death is enough; love one another. Choose love and understanding. Choose to sing, choose to praise the living; choose to trust love again. You love yourself. God loves you. Jesus loves you.


Love Is The Beginning And The Ending

Love is the beginning of jealousy. Jealousy comes anger. From anger comes Fear. From fear comes shame.

Long time ago, there was a human snake who gave up his tail for a human named Adam.

But, Adam was tempted by eve a human. Adam left the beautiful human snake, how sorrowful it is.

Her jealousy and anger fear the hell out of Adam and Eve. Adam and Eve left.

But the jealousy and sorrow of the human snake and her loneliness made her go back to her former skin, alone and full of anger, eating all the moves, she’s restless.

The humans are afraid of the snakes up until now, because of their sins, because of Adam and Eve sins. Our guilt will always be, until we learn to love the snake that is within each of us, again. Forgave humans and love again. Find hope from every little thing that is good.

And of course, accept that jealousy is the normal thing, and that it only needs self-love to slowly heal it.

Love yourself and your jealous God above all else, so it won’t be angry and restless, and fearful and of course ashamed.

What Is That Tiny Little Voice In Your Back That Is Dragging You Down?

Your own ghost. Your family’s ghost. Living or dead. Restless Ghost trying to be heard and followed.

Like a radio that keeps beeping. You can choose which station to listen or you can dwell in that station and react on each testament, take action or ignore.

But, take note, they’re only ghosts, they give suggestions based on the past, don’t argue with it, change the station, they’re simply suggesting.

Arguing with your own ghost is tiring isn’t it? Specially the ghost of others, from your family members, the tensions you were experiencing from the past still affects you once you listened to it again right?

So, if you want answers, search for it, think, do not asked. There is no way you can get answers from your past, specially if you know that your family doesn’t know anything of what you are up to in the moment.

Yes, living your own life different from what your family are used to, is seriously lonely.

You have no life support, your back hurts, isn’t it? It is hard to live alone if you don’t enjoy being alone, right?

But being alone helps you find yourself and your freedom. Freedom to build and create a new life, a new hope, future, and successes in life.

When the world cannot relate, when your family cannot give you what you’re looking for, and when they can only suggest something that you already know, something that you don’t care, and useless.

When you need help and all they care are stories of the past that are useless.

It must be hard for my friend to keep listening to my past that has nothing to do with him. I am so sorry.

Anyways, the one that is dragging you down is hardship. Hardships in life. Your Ghosts hardships collectively, from the people you’ve met, down to your family’s life story, to your office-mates, to your friends, to anyone in the world you’ve met.

Your ghost keep repeating it, and there is nothing you can do but to take time to listen and feel their hardship, take a pause and meditate, let it go, it shall pass, it’s the past station, simply ignore it or get used to it like a bad background.

Like a bee that keeps buzzing within you. Like a raindrops, like a wave, like an air, like nature, tune in to nature every time you feel dragged or stocked with the same life station, playing over and over again.

If their ghost roar seems very strong, then make your raindrops stronger than their roar, so you’ll no longer hear them. Both ghost aren’t true in the moment anyway.

Fighting your ghost when your actions, doings will make you sick and weak. But, fighting it with your holy ghost, with natures ghost, you will succeed.

Know that waves in the sea shall pass, trust in your boat, in your body, be in the moment, and do not panic. You ghost isn’t real.

My most scariest ghost was when I was with a friend, on the boat, it was raining heavy, big waves strikes our boat, I was in panic; everyone was, we thought it was gonna drown. But the captain was relaxed and calm, we made it.

It was where I get my panic attack, my panicking ghost, as if I’m gonna die already, I don’t know what to do. I felt cold, very cold, my hands are shaking.

My next ghost was when I was sliding. The slide was very strong. My friend did not try, but I do. My face turn red I was panicking that I might fly, might break my head or might injured me, or anything.

But with all my might I keep and stay calm and relaxed, and let the slide bring me down.

Sometimes, first times are always hard and scary, it’s panicking.

So, when you panic, and scared and think of retreat when times go wrong but you know that you can, it’s just a feeling of hardship and panic, anxiety, depression, all of it; simply sigh and tell yourself, don’t be scared, it’s all right. You will survive again this time.

Lesson learned, relax and enjoy during first times, specially end times, because the first and the last creates the greatest impacts. Creates the strongest ghost ever.

Relax and stay calm. Your hardships, anxieties and depression, hopelessness and lonesomeness, needs joy. Enjoy the feeling as you open the way to let them pass. Gave way to the ghosts.

Why Is It Hard To Write Your Own True Story?

It is due to conflict of interest. Our mind wants to move further, move on from the past and create a new beginning.

Writing a story based on the past will only awakened your sleeping ghosts. It is therefore very unhealthy and dangerous to both your mind and body to remember the past.

Dwelling in the past is like physically present, mentally absent. And the reason why people choose to dwell in it is because they’re afraid to let go of it, as if it is their life and letting go would mean death to them.

No one wants to die forever. But death and separation is only in the mind of every humans. An illusion that if you dwell and you let it sink deep inside you will cause too much loneliness inside of you.

It’s in the mind. Everything is in our minds and thoughts. We can help our brain and our souls and our spirit and our life with the truth.

The truth that everything around you are temporary, and it is therefore up to you to dwell in it in your minds.

Memories therefore can be put to a recycle bin, we can clean up our body, but sometimes people just become a garbage collector and bring back the trash to see if something can still be used.

It is therefore very important to delete it in the recycle bin too, So that it will be hard for you to recover those garbage then, whenever you feel like digging deep again.

Sometimes, our body wants to dig deep, wants to bring us down to settle the unsettled. Patches that they want to return to and mend.

When your body misses the old times, the old and dirty lifestyle, the past. When the body felt unloved in the moment, They’ll go back to the past to be happy again.

When the future is yet unseen, whenever you are undecided and stocked, whenever you feel lonely and tired, when hope is nowhere to be seen, the body simply want to go back to where it was once happy.

Or it could be that, the body wants to solve something from the past and tried to changed it, keep pushing to change it, but really cant because the past is in the past. The past belongs to the past, and therefore that ghost will only cause problems in the present.

Therefore, let go of your past. Maybe something important there that you want to hold on, is what makes you hesitant. The shit moments included.

If you want to let go, then writing your own stories based on the past is not a good idea. At least for me.